Sunday, April 20, 2014

Arnold Geraneo and Cheryl Continente Say "I do" -- At the St. Joseph the Worker Parish Church and MO2 Westown Hotel, Iloilo City, January 8, 2011

January 8, 2011, Saturday was a red-letter day for my second cousin Arnold Geraneo and his fiancee Cheryl Continente as they finally exchanged 'I do's' before God and man at the St. Joseph the Worker Parish Church, San Isidro, Jaro, Iloilo City
Present at the ceremony were kins and friends of the groom and the bride. Tito Tonio, the groom's father was elegant in his pina barong. Tita Nita, the mother, looked younger in her lilac-colored gown. The bridesmaids and the sponsors also wore Victorian lilac, the motif of the wedding. 
The St. Joseph the Worker Parish Church was decorated with lilac and white flowers combined with sage greens. For me who loves colors, the combination of lilac and sage is an example of mixing a cool color with a more earthly, neutral tone creating a dainty and delicate feeling. Kudos to those who conceptualized everything!
Actually, I had no plan to attend the wedding because I had a class in UP Graduate School. You know in UP, once you miss a four-hour session, it's like missing four thick books already. On the other hand, my cousin Marie Geraneo, the groom's sister, had asked me months earlier to be the commentator during the wedding rites. Dilemma, indeed. I reflected, and I came up with a very good solution - attend the wedding in the morning ( which meant being absent absent from my morning class ) and go to UP in the afternoon before 1 PM. So I did attend the wedding.
After the wedding rites at the St. Joseph the Worker Parish Church, we proceeded to MO2 Westown Hotel in Smallville Complex for the reception. Yet again, I was asked to host the program for the newlyweds since the original man for the job was not around. It wasn't much of a task since I just welcomed the new couple to the presidential table along with their parents and principal sponsors. After a small introduction then came the usuals - cutting of the cake, champagne toast, tossing of the garter and bouquets, as well as speeches. There was also a live band which played familiar wedding songs throughout the reception as guests continued to celebrate the special occasion with Arnold and Cheryl.
True to plan, I left the hotel some 20 minutes before 1 PM, just in time for my afternoon class in UP with Prof. Donne Jonne Sodusta. To Arnold and Cheryl, may you spend each day with so much love for each other. Congratulations!
Guests partaking the bounty shared by the newlyweds, Arnold and Cheryl

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Me at the wedding...

With Kat Cristales, JP Cristales, Henry Munieza, William Munieza, Antonette Geraneo, Marie Geraneo, Jong Geraneo, Gina Geraneo-Lagasca, Anj Dechilla, and Joevannie Ibanez

More Inside the Trappist Monastery, Jordan, Province of Guimaras -- December 2010

The Trappist Monastery is one of the most famous retreat centers in the whole Western Visayas Region. Most of its patrons are from the city and province of Iloilo due to accessibility. Ilonggos who go to in-country destinations usually visit the island-province of Guimaras with the Trappist Monastery as part of their itinerary.
This visit to Guimaras was a school-based thing. I will find time to go back there again for a personal retreat to give myself a 'spiritual vacation'. I know I have done countless bad things but there is still an internal divine yearning to reflect, to contemplate, to meditate, to pray. Focusing on quiet and seclusion, I am positive that the Trappist Monastery will provide time, space, and conditions to accommodate my ever restless heart.
During my two-day stay inside the monastery, I was able to observe lots of things. As a lover of history, I was happy to see for myself how the Cistercian monks spend the days of their lives. I presume these are men of great talent and culture who are attracted to seek God in the monastery. 
Their life inside radiates a spirit of simplicity and obedience to their vocation. There's evident austerity, manual labor, and prayer, the very things that spell their Order. Their livelihood involves agriculture. They have a farm which produce various products. They have a large orchard of mango trees whose yield they make into jam. They have a small bakery where they make cookies. They sell all these products in the store located facing the gate of the monastery. 

The Chapel, Trappist Monastery, Jordan, Province of Guimaras -- December 2010

The chapel of the monastery is very spacious. It has a simple facade yet very functional. It is located quite far from the entrance. It's easy to locate because of the well-cemented walkway lined by trees and bushes. There are a lot of pine trees around the chapel area.
Getting inside, my attention was caught by the ceiling design highlighted by its sleek reddish brown color. The chapel boasts beautiful tall ceilings. The modern lighting and clean, shiny floors give the wooden ceilings an updated look.
It was not a Sunday when we went there, so we were not able to hear Mass in the chapel. I heard from my students Aurelia and Anna Philippa Nava that they would usually attend Mass there on Sundays.
I and my co-teacher Bena Sumagaysay were the only ones around the chapel area.  After saying a little prayer near the altar, we roamed around checking the statues and icons that we saw. We were happy because all the photo opportunities were ours!
Adjacent to the chapel are the houses of the monks. These structures sit on a lushly carpeted yard accented by proud conifers. We were told that we're not allowed to enter that area but we disobeyed. Bena and I ventured a little bit for some camera clicks. Fortunately, I had already taken more than 10 shots when we saw a monk in brown robe coming. We managed to get back to the chapel just in time.
We left the place before the Angelus, just in time for dinner at the guesthouse refectory. I took lots of photos and when I checked my disk space, it was almost full. This meant I enjoyed the place very much. So did Bena.

Saturday, April 19, 2014

Guesthouse, Trappist Monastery, Jordan, Province of Guimaras -- December 2010

During our retreat in December of 2010, we stayed at the monastery's guesthouse. It's a newly-constructed structure good enough for us to have a comfortable stay. It has a friendly receiving area with a mini-altar, a big television set, and a comfortable white sofa. It was Fr. Bruno, the guesthouse master, who welcomed us to the place.

Inside the guesthouse...


The guesthouse has more than 10 rooms which can accommodate two occupants each. I shared room with Rene Secular, Assumption Iloilo's Christian Living Education ( CLE ) facilitator. Our room was near the steel door towards the monastery's mini-chapel. It's a fan room with its own toilet and bathroom. 

Trappist Monastery in Jordan Will Tell You, "Welcome to Guimaras!' -- December 2010

The 'Our Lady of the Philippines Monastery' is also called the 'Trappist Monastery'. It is located in Brgy. San Miguel, Jordan, Province of Guimaras. It is the only monastery of the 'Cistercians of the Strict Observance' in the Philippines. It was founded in 1972. At present, there are around 30 monks living in the monastery.
The Cistercians, who were founded in France, live a life dedicated to the contemplative search for God. Cistercian monasteries are located in solitary places in the country for the sake of living more quiet and hidden lives in simplicity.
The monastery in Guimaras was founded by the United States Region in 1972 and is the only men's monastery of the Order in the Philippines. The whole place is vast with a rather large church built in 1997 and a modern guesthouse with private facilities. They welcome those who wish to spend some days with them in prayer and meditation, joining in prayer at the office and mass along with the monastic community.

Assumption Iloilo Annual Faculty and Staff Retreat, Trappist Monastery, Jordan, Province of Guimaras, December 2010

Among Assumption Iloilo personnel, December used to be the retreat month. Well, we're always excited about the retreat because it's the only time for us to somehow get a different perspective on life and on our chosen path. 
But for me, at least, it's my 'lagaw' time. Eyebrows, please! Don't take my concept of 'lagaw' as something negative. Lagaw for me is purposeful. I don't just go to places and let loose. I wander. I observe. I appreciate. And most importantly, I learn. Everything is recorded in my blog.
This 'Faculty and Staff Retreat' was my first in Assumption. It was held in Trappist Monastery in Jordan, Guimaras. The place is officially called 'The Abbey of the Philippines' and is run by the Monks of the Cistercian Order.
Our retreat master was Sr. Mary Fidelis Estrada, RA, former Principal of Assumption Iloilo. Sr. Nilda Hechanova, RA, the current principal, was also with us. Rene Secular, the school's campus minister  assisted Sr. Fidelis during the sessions. 
The two-day retreat was a big help for me. After the different sessions that we had had, I started to understand perspectives that maybe I hadn't considered before. Slowing down time allowed me to think a little bit differently about the way I treat myself and my colleagues. 

On the Boat Going to Guimaras -- Assumption Iloilo Annual Faculty and Staff Retreat, December 2010

On the pumpboat crossing the Iloilo Strait. In our case, we rented two pumpboats going to the island-province of Guimaras because there were more than 50 of us, all Assumption Iloilo personnel.

With Alexander Romero, Assumption Iloilo Music facilitator. Going to Guimaras from Iloilo City is fairly easy. If you're heading to the capital town of Jordan, the boat station is in Ortiz St. For those who are going to Buenavista, the ferry terminal is at the port area near Camp. Martin Delgado. Boat fare is around Php15 .

Assumption Iloilo personnel excited for the retreat. With Jemaresa Talaman, Bliss Gregore, Joy Rojas, Eliza Nelda, Alexander Romero, Sonia Licera, Sr. Agnes Myriam Lomboy, RA, Rahjni Faith EScare, and Bena Sumagaysay

GE X500 Test Shot -- At SM Delgado Appliance Center, December 2010

This is my first ever digital camera - GE X500. This is General Electric's take on the superzoom genre and slots into what it calls its 'Power Pro' range. As such, the X500 comes with a 15x optical zoom, a 16 MP sensor, and an electronic viewfinder, all for a knockdown, budget price of less than Php10,000.
It's actually my co-teacher Bena Sumagaysay who urged me to buy this bridge camera. Upon receiving my first ever 13th month pay from Assumption, I hurriedly went to SM Delgado Appliance Center to check the camera for myself. After some test shots, I decided to get it. It's not really a premium camera brand but for a bridge digicam, getting it for Php10K  was a steal.

Thanks Korina Segaya for This Photo of Me -- At Assumption Iloilo, December 2010

My time is way too valuable to be wasting 
on people who cannot accept who I am.

Meet My Very First Students in Assumption Iloilo -- Reading 5 Class, School Year 2010-2011

I started teaching in Assumption Iloilo in June of 2010. I had teaching loads both in the Intermediate Grades and in High School. My subjects included Reading-Grade 5, Journalism-Year II, and Journalism-Year III. It was difficult at first because I had three different preparations and I was just learning the ropes but eventually I managed to cope with the demands of the daily grind.
Reading is actually a fun subject to teach. In Assumption there is a separate class for Reading. Part of it is the regular library instruction held at the Jeremiah Bibliotheque at the ARC Building where the photos in this post were taken. During that time, the librarian in-charge was Rovilyn Debalucos. 
Honestly, I prefer teaching Language to teaching Reading. Reading for me is a pastime, not a requirement. But I'm a teacher, an English teacher at that and I'm expected to teach the four macro-skills, one of which is Reading. So when the load was given to me by Ms. Merlina Patingo, Assumption Iloilo's Academic Coordinator, I yielded.
This group was unique. They had different personalities, different backgrounds, different intelligences, different demeanors, different enthusiasms, and different talents. But they're never problem students. They never gave me migraines and nightmares. Probably, one thing that helped me deal with them is 'understanding'
In the classroom, I did everything to make them like my class. Sometimes it was difficult to get their attention but a little motivation did the trick. I really wanted to inspire them and give them a love for reading, and indeed, it was easier than I thought.
One thing that I can remember about our Reading class was the storytelling session. These kids loved imaginary stories that had to do with magic, mythical creatures, and heroic exploits. Most of the time, they would leave their chairs and squat on the floor to listen to my stories. Their imagination and curiosity took them to far off places and lands where magic flourished.
Another thing which I can't forget was our speech choir 'The Bells', a heavily onomatopoeic poem by Edgar Allan Poe. Until now they can still memorize this extraordinarily difficult poem. They presented it on staged during the 'Family Day 2010'. Towards the end of the school year, I also asked them to memorize Abraham Lincoln's immortal speech 'The Gettysburg Address'.
These kids are very special to me. They learned a lot from my class and in return I also learned a lot from them. Ask them about synonyms and antonyms, word clines, graphs, symbols, timelines, alphabetizing, outlining, reading strategies, and thinking skills and they will answer you with confidence and ease. As a neophyte teacher then, I learned from them how to be patient, understanding, and child-like.
Now they're in Grade 8. Most of them were in my English class again last year. Every time I bump into them around the campus, I smile and talk to them. Some already have boyfriends and girlfriends. Others have just secret crushes. For me, they're still the cute little boys and girls in my Reading 5 class four years ago.
"A teacher affects eternity. Nobody knows where his influences stops."  - Henry Brooks Adams, American historian and man of letters
With Gianina Ng and Alex Francia. Too bad, these two transfered to Ateneo de Iloilo but I am happy for them.
To this group, I say, "Thank you for the chance to teach you. Thank you for the memories! Until next time!

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List of students whose faces appeared in this post:

Hannah Sudaria, Michelle Cabrera, Gianina Ng, Jennifer Pesongco, Paolo Lorenzo Fuentes, Allaina Aguro, Zachary Jo Alfonso Pijuan, Bea Salazar, Nikaia Mendoza, Frances Tan, Sophia Sombong, Joaquin Nebiar, Carlos Pesayco, Alex Francia, and Patrisza Jaca

Assumption Iloilo's Jeremiah Bibliotheque -- December 2010

The Intermediate Grades library of Assumption Iloilo is officially called Jeremiah Bibliotheque. I'm not exactly sure if it's named after the Prophet Jeremiah, whose book in the Old Testament offers a remarkable range of literature, including prose, poetry, oracles, homiles and proverbs. Or perhaps after David Jeremiah, a celebrated author of numerous books on Christian theology topics.
The library is located on the 2nd floor of the ARC Building, just above the school refectory. It is served by a licensed librarian who caters to the library needs of the Intermediate Grades students of Assumption Iloilo. 
Assumption Iloilo Jeremiah Bibliotheque is a memorable place for me. When I entered Assumption in 2010, one of the subjects given to me was Reading 5. As part of the Reading curriculum, my students had to have 'library instruction'  with Rovilyn Debalucos, the librarian in-charge, once a month. As the subject teacher, I had to accompany my students here to ensure maximum utilization of their library period.

Thanks for the Gift, Shawie! -- With Sharon de la Cruz, High School Growth Community Office, Assumption Iloilo, December 2010

And it's a book! Shawie must have read this quote from J.K. Rowling: "One can never have enough socks. Another Christmas has come and gone and I didn't get a single pair. People will insist on giving me books".